Who would you choose?

EMS9889 · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 4:31 pm

Who would you choose to be with, The one you love or the one that loves you? I thought this was a good wuestion when I heard it and I wanna know what you guys would do.

Adbot · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 4:31 pm

Rad · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 4:36 pm

wow.. that is a good question

uhh.. i'd have to say the one i love.. bc there are alot of girls that love me..
and.. some of them i dont wanna be around haha

Alex · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 4:46 pm

Uh the one who loves me (or so she says) will get annoying.

So the one I love.

Waffle 350 · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 4:50 pm

the one i love

the one that loves me is usualy..anoying

Veggie Eater · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 6:14 pm

The one I love.

My last relationship was really.. hmm.. unfortunate. My boyfriend was extremely clingy. I really did love him though, and I still do, but I just couldn't take how clingy he was so I had to break up with him. That was the hardest thing I've ever had to do

I still cry about it sometimes and it's been 9 months. It sucks though because we were really good friends for 3 years before we started dating [dated for about 1 year], and now things will never be the same. I can't even hang out with him anymore because of how awkward things get. God that depresses me.

So after going through all that, I would rather be with the one I love because the guy wouldn't be clingy.

blethorskite · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 6:28 pm

A cop out maybe, but it's got to be both.

Adbot · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 6:28 pm

The Xbox Legacy · **Posted:** September 17th, 2008, 6:32 pm

It's if the person I love loves me back, versus whether I love the person that loves me. Hard to say since I've never been in this situation. All depends on the people I guess.

Kayto239 · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 12:43 am

The one I love because all girls love me back.

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Brad · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 8:56 am

One I loved. The majority of relationships I've been in I've cared more about my feelings for her than her feelings for me. If that makes sense.

Mushroom Queen · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 8:58 am

This is an unfair question. If you decide to be with someone you love, you're an altruistic sop. If you choose someone who loves you, you're conceited. XD I don't see a healthy relationship coming from either choice, so I don't think I'd choose either of the options.

Ranging God · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 10:28 am

Hmmmm, I dont know. I think it would be with someone who loves me, but it is kinda hard to decide.

Iron Maiden · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 2:08 pm

To me, In both case you lose. If you choose the one you love, You will make sad the one who loves you. If you choose the one who loves you, You will be sad for not chosing the one you love.

Frankly, I'd chose no ones, Because I really hate to hurt people's feeling. I'd rather punish myself than hurt someone.

If I had no choice, I'd chose the One who loves me. Simply because it would totally change me, I'm who I am because I was pretty much hated before. If I was loved, I wouldnt be who you know me as.

lupike123 · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 7:24 pm

i wuld porlby go with the one that loves me becuz the girl that u love might not love u back.... it has happen to me many times... and it is always bad in the end.... but anyways going with the gurl that loves u, u culd probly get a lot more done with... lol :shock:

Unbirthday · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 7:31 pm

The one who loves me. So I never have to doubt. =D

Marking22 · **Posted:** September 18th, 2008, 8:11 pm

the one i love cause i picked her