Even more problems...

Iron Maiden · **Posted:** February 16th, 2008, 8:07 pm

Alright...I usually dont like to talk about it here. But I guess I can all trust you ? Eh.

It was over a year ago, For the first time ever (in 15 years) I asked to a girl to date me. Was ended with a ''No'' of course. I tried again exactly 1 month after with the SAME girl (Im not joking, Some of my friend told me I was the bravest person on earth), Still a ''NO''. Then I went depressive for LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time.I was still very strong, I didnt cryed. The school-year passed, Then the pain ended. About in November 2007, A pretty cute girl came with a letter, Some of my friend took it and said it was wrote ''I love Chris, I love Chris''(Chris is me) , I didnt see if it was true, But this friend is usally a big liar. But few days after,Something in me started to grow. I think I actually like her. If it would be so simple, Id just go for it. But of course theres a problem

Yes, I used to be scared of Nothing, But I am VERY afraid of getting an other ''No''. I wouldnt be able to take another one. I was very strong to pass over TWO shot but a Third will be too much.

So what y'all think ?
I really need Advice ASAP. (Possibly before monday)

Thanks for being nice,mature and having time to listen to my problems, You are all really good friends.

EDIT: I forgot to mention, We have pretty large age difference...I am 15, I will turn 16 this october 25th, And she's 13, She will turn 14 on January 17th 2009.

Adbot · **Posted:** February 16th, 2008, 8:07 pm

CreepyPirate · **Posted:** February 16th, 2008, 8:11 pm

Rejection, hard thing to deal with.

Two kinds of people, those that'll keep on trying, take as many punches as the world can throw and still come back for more and those that'll get a slap and back off in a corner, living a very boring lonely, sad life.

Which would you be? Theres your answer. (y)

Iron Maiden · **Posted:** February 16th, 2008, 8:16 pm

I've been the second one(The sad emo one lawl) for too long, And I dont want of this ANYMORE

I'll probally go for it.

Thank you very much Creepy, This is helped me, Its nice to see that there people to help you to deal with it and understanding you.

Ill take my final decision on Tomorrows Night, I still need a few more advice.

Ult_Mac_Dady · **Posted:** February 16th, 2008, 8:42 pm

If someone says no, shrug it off. Move on. It wan never meant to be in the first place. I say 1 'no' is enough to keep me from coming back. If she truly likes you, then haha! She should have said yes in the first place!

Or at least, that's how I roll :wink:

Mikhail · **Posted:** February 16th, 2008, 9:12 pm

If she rejects move on, there's always someone who will come along later.

Ryan · **Posted:** February 17th, 2008, 4:11 am

CreepyPirate wrote:

Rejection, hard thing to deal with.

Two kinds of people, those that'll keep on trying, take as many punches as the world can throw and still come back for more and those that'll get a slap and back off in a corner, living a very boring lonely, sad life.

Which would you be? Theres your answer. (y)

*Agree*

You've already gone through it twice so you must know how to take a 'no'. But if you believe she did right that letter, you have to think positive. What will you do when she says 'yes'?

Adbot · **Posted:** February 17th, 2008, 4:11 am

Gontcha · **Posted:** February 17th, 2008, 4:48 am

Meh, I've had a fight with my friend, I walked 16 km to her house to apologise, no avail.
I don't know, try to verify what your friend was saying, ask for the letter (seems a bit weird, unorginal and uninspirational letter, but hey).Getting a no is very hard, and ys, you're brave

I'd say observer for a week, should be obvious if she feels something for you.
Hope I helped atleast a bit.

Iron Maiden · **Posted:** February 17th, 2008, 11:48 am

Aww ty all

Thats helped me. Ya I admit that the letter is actually very *cliché* lol

Ill ask my friend for a final advice tomorrow and I might be ready to go.

Thank you all

Alex · **Posted:** February 17th, 2008, 12:21 pm

You gotta risk a no if you ever want to hear a yes.

I say go for it, if she says no then there's plenty more fish in the sea. You're quite young and you've got a very long time to meet someone you like.

For me, I fall for girls quite easily. One smile is enough to make me crush on someone. I have several love interests in my life right now. XD

I'm not picky.

Josh · **Posted:** February 17th, 2008, 7:39 pm

keep your sights high. and don't give up. trust me, i've had my "no"'s and my fair few "yes"'s. that's because i never gave up. or settled. so yeah man, jsut keep going for it.

Kenny · **Posted:** February 19th, 2008, 11:48 am

The age difference sounds tricky but other than that why not. I find it hard to ask girls to date me because I am really shy with girls for some reason.