Revenge. I need help.

Hi everyone. This has been bothering me for the past several days and i just need to tell people, and possibly get advice on what i should do.

About a month ago my friend{friend 1} introduced me to this girl. Me and her got along perfectly. We went to see movies together, we hung out alot. We talked about it, and decided not to call eachother bf and gf yet. Everything was perfect. Then HE came.

One day we were hanging out and my friend{friend 2} came out and started to hang out with us. He started to hit on her and everything. For the past several days they hung out together. She said they were just friends and she didnt want to get serious with him at all.

Then she came out and broke my heart. My friend 1 who introduced me to her said she saw her go into the other kids house, and they stood there for like 3 hours. When i talked to her she said they just talked and played games. I looked into this alot, and saw her go to his house EVERY SINGLE DAY. I told him that I liked her before he even knew her and he should back off and he said ok. Of course, he didnt back off.

By this point my heart was almost broken, so i decided to try and hang out with her more and eventually ask her out. My friend 1 said he would help me as best as he could. For 2 more weeks we hung out almost every day. She bairly hung out with friend 2 and things were looking up.

One day i made the move and asked her to be my gf. Her answer-{Look I heart you and all but I dont want a boyfriend AT ALL. When I am ready for a boyfriend I will tell you.}.btw its a looooong story on why she doesnt want one which im not getting into.

So now I feel ok. I know i dont have to worry about friend 2 anymore. I told all my friends at school that she wasnt ready for a bf, but she will talk to me when she is ready.

That night SHE asked FRIEND 2 OUT!!!!!!!

I didnt believe it. Friend 2 told everyone at school and I was humiliated.

I went home and called her. She said it was true. I asked why why she went and lied to me. She said she didnt want me to hurt her.

Me-"What do you meen?"
Her-"Friend 2 told me you are always getting drunk and you beat up your last gf."

I have never drunk in my life. He lied to me, and lied to her.

That was when I lost it. My friend, who said he would HELP me get her, had made up and lie and help friend 2.


I was Humiliated in front of everyone. I was lied to by a girl I thought I could love. I was betrayed by 2 of my best friends.

Not only that, but friend 2 is bragging about her and him doing things together,If you know what I meen.

After being hurt by this, All i became obsessed with revenge. All i want is to see all of them suffer. Its already to late for friend 1, because 1 week after all this I ended up breaking 2 of his windows and breaking his arm.

Im scared because when i become angry, i lose control. It almost as if an alter ego takes over and I cant control myself. It has been 1 month and I am still planning my revenge. I need help because I am starting to scare myself. Ive been punching the walls nonstop, throwing things as hard as I can to let my anger out. I have been thinking about therapy, but idk at this point.

The last time I talked to "her" she said that she wasnt sorry for what she did. She did what she thought was right. Every time i go on their myspace's and see picture of them kissing, this alter ego takes over and just wantto see them in pain. Im starting to lose control and want to ask, what should i do?

Look calm down, girls are bad news. Its life its gonna suck sometimes, you gotta pick yourself off the ground and keep walking. There are 1,000,000 more girls out there that are better than her. Who cares what people atschool think, screw them. If i stopped and thought what people thought about me i wouldn't be able to get through a day. You will find another girl that is twice as good as her and wont stab you in the back. Dont let her and him bring you down like this, be a man stand up and keep walking. Dont hurt yourself over a girl its not worth it, trust me....if you need someone to talk to my msn is kylenash08@hotmail.com

Some friends weight you down, its easy to make new friends. Find something you enjoy like runescape, or another games, do something to keep your mind off it.

I know exactly how you feel. Also, you came to the right place. Unlike other sites we will actually listen and try to help you the best we can.

First of all, i'm very sorry to hear about all this. Some girls just...(I don't mean any offence in this since I know this is a sensitive subject) don't care about other people's feelings.

I can see an upside to this though. It's much better that she did this now than if she did start going out with you. It's one of the most horrible feelings to be cheated on. I know being betrayed feels probably just as worse though.

Look, just from your post you sound like she doesn't deserve you. You're much better than her. I know you hurt now, but don't let this keep you down forever. Try your best to overcome it.

I have some tips for you. As I said before, you are much than her. Girls like that give people up on whim. I'm about 90% sure that she will dump "Friend #2" and leave him for someone else. The cycle will go on too.

Some things i've learned is don't go for the popular girl. 95% of the time they won't really love you. I've found that the more quiet girls can show more emotion and care than anyone else.

Another, dump Myspace. It's heartbreak on wheels. All it is is a place for girls to go to get hit on by random guys. I've had my heart broken countless times on that horrible website.

Don't let your emotions get the best of you. Breaking things is a...semi-ok way to get your anger out. Don't take it too far though. Last time I lost control I put my fist through a double paned window, someone called the cops on me and they wanted to take me to jail. Even if it's your possesion, you can still get in trouble.

If I think of anything else i'll edit this post. But I really do hope I, and everyone else at RSBandB can help you.

If you want to talk you can add me on msn: Border144@hotmail.com

~Snowfox.

Edit: Reading your last post, I think you made a very wise decision leaving that group. Try not to get in any trouble, that will only make the matter worse.

No offence again, but honestly, your last friends sound like jerks. The jerks only get the girls who date for popularity/money. The people who act gentle, caring, and compassionate get the girls who will love you for a lifetime.

i really suggest you talk to your school consoler or your parents or teacher. talk to somebody, if you keep this bottled up you might just explode one day.

Three things.


1. Get some new friends, your current friends sound like jerks.

2. Myspace is an abomination, don't go there ever again. Regardless of anything to the contrary, I have only heard bad things come from it, if you want to keep in touch then create a blog and get your friends on Skype or/and MSN.

3. Get over it.


This probably hasn't helped in the slightest but this is not my area of expertise.

People change, things go wrong, just remember life goes on.

Wait, how old are you?

Oh yeah, if you're a good fighter, fight it out, possibly make him bleed badly.

Take it from a girl, you wouldn't have wanted to date this wench anyway. She sounds like she was fun to hang out with and all, but imagine if you were going out with her and THEN she left you for your friend. That would've been worse, wouldn't it? All in all, she had her mind made up that she wanted to go out with him beforehand, she seemed like she just couldn't come out and be honest with you. Don't blame your friend for this, it's really no use to argue over girls. In future, if your friend does crap like that again, don't call him your friend. As for the girl, who wants to date someone who can't even tell you the truth?

Huh, I can understand what you mean when you say you want to see them suffer, and all, after reading that, if it was me, I would try and beat the living crap into them dpeding on if they were bigger than me or not.

Girls can cause all sorts of pain, but hey, that's life, and as crud as it is, you need to try and move on, I read that you found new friends, which is good because it it usually hard after things like that.

I recommend you find some hobbies as well, as they can help to take your mind off of it.

Personally, I think that you did well to break his arm, I know it makes me sound mean, and all that, but sometimes, people just deserve things like that.



Lol, and I agree, as evil as it sounds. I wouldn't even think about it, first chance I'd get I would punch them straight in the face, a lot.

Well, that's about all I have to say, I would resort to violence at first as well, but you can get into deep **** for that, so I'd try and not break his bones, just rough him up a bit...