Lord Rickles wrote:
Warren wrote:
Every kid I've ever dealt with I wanted to tie up and duck tape their mouths at multiple points ...
I lol'ed. Then I was depressed. If every kid you meet makes you feel this way, perhaps you have a bad perception of kids. While I agree the child should be punished legally, what correcting factor will help treat someone who clearly doesn't have the mental capacity of an adult? Should we jail mentally disabled or disturbed people as well? How will this prevent them from committing these actions in the future?
All creatures, especially lower level thinking ones, behave based on the reactions to such behavior they did before. Children, especially young ones, aren't capable of understanding external variables, only what they see or what they feel themselves at the time, and associate that with whatever situation they are in. It is for this reason that so many people blame parents. They clearly led their children to believe that how they act in that situation is OK. Children don't think to observe this from someone else's perspective, or even know such behavior is wrong if they are not told it is as such. It's a parent's responsibility to teach them these things, and if they don't, the judicial system should force them to for the betterment of the child.
I agree with most of what you say.
Children still wouldn't know a behavior is wrong even if you told them so. If anything, they are just taking your word for it and not truly internalizing it and believing it. A child won't know something is wrong unless they mature and realize it is wrong or go do it for themselves. But, the best a parent can do is to simply tell the child what they should not do and then live by example.
I don't agree with the second part of your last sentence. It is a parent's responsibility to teach, but the government can't force you to be a parent, nor should it. If parents don't want to teach their children or be responsible, then 1) they shouldn't have children in the first place and 2) someone else who cares about kids and is responsible should get their children. It would be too difficult for government to manage and monitor parenting.