need rl advice

imac · **Posted:** October 21st, 2007, 5:52 pm

ok this girl i like i am kind of in a diffrent league than her i do hang with the cool group of kids in my grade thats the group shes in but im more of the class clown there i am afraid if i ask her out she will not want to hang out with me or anything plz help!!!

Adbot · **Posted:** October 21st, 2007, 5:52 pm

Chris · **Posted:** October 21st, 2007, 7:25 pm

Well, certainly do not just suddenly go ask her out if you don't know her well. Try and give looks out of the corner of your eye, see if she takes notice or looks back. Try a little small talk, or ask about an assignment or whatnot. Also, try asking her friends about her and tell them to leave a hint to her that you asked.

Unbirthday · **Posted:** October 21st, 2007, 7:43 pm

Well it really depends on if she likes you. If she does then go for it. And who cares if your the class clown, that just means the attention is on you more anyways. So least you've been noticed and your not coming out of the shadows to ask her out. Just don't make it major. Just ask her to a simple movie and see how it goes. Hope it all works out. Pm me if you need more advice, I don't mean to brag, but I'm like the 'hitch' at my school and community. So more detail from pms'

Fangda · **Posted:** October 21st, 2007, 7:57 pm

How old are you?

imac · **Posted:** October 22nd, 2007, 3:56 am

Fangda wrote:

How old are you?

13 and i do know her quite well accutley ill try some of these thimgs and btw she is very pretty

MattVortex · **Posted:** October 22nd, 2007, 4:34 am

Real girls like grammar.

Aside from my grammar nazism, you may as well try. No harm in trying. Well, not much harm in trying.

Just make sure you be yourself. If you're the class clown now, stay the class clown even when you're with her. I made the mistake of not being myself with one of my ex girlfriends and that failed within the month.

Adbot · **Posted:** October 22nd, 2007, 4:34 am

Gontcha · **Posted:** October 22nd, 2007, 2:13 pm

MattVortex wrote:

Real girls like grammar.

VIRGIIIINNN!!!!

No, just try to be subtle with your actions, start out slowly, you'll notice if it goes the right direction

imac · **Posted:** October 22nd, 2007, 3:00 pm

ok i heres wat has happened i looked up at her and she looked up at me the only thing of being class clown is friends saying to her hes stupid and stuff like that but really i am intellegent i sorta am both i make her laugh all the time and she tells people about me

Brad · **Posted:** October 22nd, 2007, 3:04 pm

imac wrote:

ok i heres wat has happened i looked up at her and she looked up at me the only thing of being class clown is friends saying to her hes stupid and stuff like that but really i am intellegent i sorta am both i make her laugh all the time and she tells people about me

Ignore this whole 'league' stuff. Nobody is out of anybody elses league. If she likes you, it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks of you. If that does influence her, maybe she's not as great as you think she is.

Unbirthday · **Posted:** October 22nd, 2007, 3:33 pm

imac wrote:

ok i heres wat has happened i looked up at her and she looked up at me the only thing of being class clown is friends saying to her hes stupid and stuff like that but really i am intellegent i sorta am both i make her laugh all the time and she tells people about me

If you make her laugh that's a plus. But if she tells people about you, you are definantly 'in'. (as long as it's good talk) I just moved to a new school, and that makes me a senior at a new school and I love it, because girls talk about me all the time, and I get girls who come up to me with their numbers and etc.

So if she talks about you and it's good. Go for it!!

imac · **Posted:** October 23rd, 2007, 4:12 am

well it is good talk she says to them how funny i am

Ryan · **Posted:** October 23rd, 2007, 7:53 am

imac wrote:

well it is good talk she says to them how funny i am

Thats when you make your move. If shes on her own doing homework or something you should go and say hi to her and talk to each other. But remember to start small

Tjbartz2009 · **Posted:** October 23rd, 2007, 7:53 pm

Also the best thing to do is act yourself...DO NOT try to be someone you arent because it just wont work out. Just try to hang out with her and stuff if you can. The best thing to do I suggest is to just start talkin to her at her locker or in lunch or something.

With my current girlfriend I just hung out with her and friends after Cross Country Practice at my friends house we slowly started to hook up and stuff and now we are going out.

Clouded_Light · **Posted:** October 24th, 2007, 8:31 am

Girls don't care about what 'league' your in if your cool. If your shy and anxious you probably only have a slim chance.